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19 | Alive with Lauren Henkin | Curiosity is Fundamental to Being Human
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19 | Alive with Lauren Henkin | Curiosity is Fundamental to Being Human

Lauren Henkin is a fine art photographer, former architect, and founder of The Humane Space — an app designed to help people live more curiously. Her path from architecture school to sculpture to a major show at the Contemporary Arts Center Cincinnati to wellness, and ultimately to building a technology product that insists on human craft at every layer, is itself a case study in what it looks like to follow curiosity across a lifetime. In this conversation, Lauren and I work through a question that circles the very heart of this podcast: what does it mean to reclaim curiosity in a world designed to suppress it? We get into the workplace as a space that systematically stifles curious thinking, the paradox of building a humane app in a world of AI-generated content, how space and scale shape how we think and feel, and what it actually costs us when we outsource our voice to a machine.

Connect with Lauren:⁠ ⁠⁠https://linkedin.com/in/laurenhenkin⁠

Humane Space Website: https://thehumane.space

Takeaways:

  • Curiosity isn’t a childhood trait or a creative luxury — it’s the fundamental expression of who we are as human beings. It runs from birth to death, and we’ve simply forgotten how to practice it as adults.

  • The modern workplace is structurally hostile to curiosity. The relentless drive toward efficiency and scale asks people to repeat the same steps over and over — and when employees do bring ideas, the instinct is to shut them down rather than follow the thread. Engagement and curiosity are deeply connected, and organizations are paying the price for that disconnect.

  • AI is pulling everything toward the mean. Its outputs reflect the average of what it was trained on. The greatest human innovations have always come from the outliers — from someone wondering about something in a way that couldn’t be predicted. That capacity is not something AI can replicate, and it’s becoming more visible as a competitive differentiator.

  • When Lauren started relying on AI for email, she noticed she was losing her voice. Not just thinking less — losing a felt sense of identity and connection. Going back to writing everything herself, she felt more alive and more present with the people she was writing to.

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